Where Healing Actually Happens?(And Why We Keep Forgetting)

Real healing doesn’t happen in a therapeutic relationship. It happens in relationship, period. Attachment was not formed in neutral, time-boxed, once-a-week settings. It was formed in intimacy.

We often talk about healing as something that happens in therapy.

But if we’re honest - and if we remember our own training - we know this isn’t quite true.

Real healing doesn’t happen in a therapeutic relationship. It happens in relationship, period.

Attachment wounds were not formed in neutral, time-boxed, once-a-week settings.

They were formed in intima…